Wednesday, June 03, 2015

Bisexual community mourns loss of bisexual teen, Adam Kizer

"The death of a bisexual Sonoma Valley teen who killed himself after years of bullying has sparked a community discussion about the emotionally scarring behavior while raising questions among his family about the way he was treated. 
Adam Kizer, a 16-year-old sophomore at Sonoma Valley High School, died Saturday at a hospital after being taken off life support, his family said..." - Read more: Suicide of Sonoma teen sparks discussion about bullying
Adam Kizer, Sonoma Valley High School student
Adam, rest in peace and in power. We are so sad for him and all the other bi+ teens who aren't making it, we can DO BETTER by them.

Monosexuals frequently dismiss, diminish and invalidate the wealth of data that shows bi+ people to have less support in coming out, in dealing with bullies or surviving suicidality.

Every day I hear from bi, pan, fluid and queer kids, adults and elders that they are encouraged to accept "the privilege" of hiding who they are.

They are denied services from gay and lesbian resource centers because "they should be fine, how hard can it be?"

And so they die, frequently without none to claim them as their own.

The bisexual community claims this young person! YOU WERE PRECIOUS TO US AND YOUR LOSS WILL BE REMEMBERED. We will keep fighting for you and share your story in hopes it is one less often told.

REMEMBER before you pack for a trip that has no return, try and reach a community of people who have pretty much been there and survived. Give us the chance to remind you of your inheritance still to come. From orange juice boycotts to sex education to PRIDE itself, you are part of a legend still in the making but only if you make it to tomorrow.

Make it to tomorrow.

Make it to tomorrow and find us, we are the B in LGBT and you are not alone.

Faith Cheltenham, BiNet USA President
binetusa@binetusa.org

LEARN MORE: HRC Youth Report on Supporting and Caring for our Bisexual Youth

DO MORE: Adam's family seeks assistance with burial and related costs, click here to donate

FIND BI+ COMMUNITY IN YOUR AREA: Bisexual groups in the USA

(Hashtags- #MakeItTomorow #Biphobiakills)